Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Thankful Thursday

This week we have been so incredibly thankful. There is so much to be thankful for and we are constantly in awe of the gifts and blessings we receive.

This week we are most thankful for the life of my grandfather.

My grandpa was a truly incredible person. It's so hard to consider him mortal - maybe it is a combination of never losing a family member before, coupled with the strength and great perseverance that was on display daily in his life. Every trial was faced head on with the confidence of a leader. As head of the tree he provided shade and protection to all the branches below. His reach was wide to provide shelter for others. He will be greatly missed on this humble Earth.

What speaks louder to me than anything else is what is happening now. He is face to face with his maker. Pain-free and burden-less he can run into the open arms of our heavenly father. Even just the thought is beyond my feeble comprehension.

Thank you for the great wisdom you passed on. Thank you for all the laughs and joy. Thank you for all the memories, they are timeless.


Friday, December 18, 2009

Thankful Thursday

This Thursday we are (were) thankful for...
  • layers
  • productive mornings
  • new prayers
  • Christmas movies
  • coworker bonding!!
  • communication breakthroughs

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Thankful Thursday

A VERY THANKFUL Thursday indeed!!

After 90 days the Dr. recommends no more immobilization. He says it is not healed (x-rays still show a fracture line) but it is time to start movement in my wrist. I will head back for more x-rays in two weeks. In honor of this, here are some things to be thankful for:

  • Long-Sleeve shirts!
  • Showers without bags!
  • Legible hand writing!
  • Using two hands to wash your hair!
  • No more relying on the woman of the home to handle hard to open jars! Hooray!!

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Test answers

We've been giving tests this past week to all of our kids. We received a few answers from our 1st graders that made us chuckle quite a bit. Click to enlarge.




Thursday, December 3, 2009

Thankful Thursday

Today we are thankful for...
  • hot lunches
  • test days
  • Christmas music
  • smaller classes this month
  • Thailand countdown

Monday, November 30, 2009

Healthcare

**Long read, you've been warned**

Well my wrist is still broken. The fracture occurred approximately 80 days ago. My wrist has been immobilized for about 78 days. For those interested in how I've dealt with healthcare in a country where English is not primary...

Saturday September 12 11:30pm - fracture occurs

Monday September 14 - Convinced of a fracture, I reluctantly ask the assistant principal to escort me to the nearest x-ray facility/doctor to confirm my suspicions. Graciously he meets my request with a same day appointment. He accompanies me to a local clinic/standard Doctor's office and tells the receptionist/nurse of the condition. After collecting my government issued ID and confirming my national healthcare membership I wait a few minutes before meeting the doctor. This doctor (don't know his name : / ) speaks decent English and the second question he asks me (after what happened?) is what medical allergies I have and what medication I'm currently on. This may seem very routine, but when you are in a foreign country this sort of question gives you more comfort than you can imagine. Anyway, the x-ray shows a hairline fracture (note: no lead vest...hmmm) which the doctor is very pleased with because he insists a scaphoid fracture is typically awful to heal and a pain to say the least. He applies a splint and gives me a prescription for ????? (he says medicine for minor pain and to reduce the swelling). A couple of minutes later I am on my way to the pharmacy with my assistant principal (pharmacies literally line the streets, quite convenient). The pharmacist takes a quick look at the paper, disappears, then reappears with 12 individual plastic packets with three pills in each. Through translation with the assistant principal: Take these 3 pills (again, who knows?) thrice daily for three days. Easy enough. Mildly pleased with my first experience with foreign medicine. Paid in Korean won, but will give approximate USD. Out of pocket: $18.00 (xray, dr. visit, splint, drugs).

Thursday September 17th: Return to original doctor. Splint removed, hard cast applied. Told to return in 3 weeks for x-rays (went alone this trip, fortunately front desk recognized me right away...American with a broken wrist, probably not all that common). Out of pocket: $4.00 hard cast.

Monday October 5th: Return to original Dr./clinic for x-ray check-up (accompanied by assistant principal). X-rays (lead vest? of course not) show fracture much worse than original x-ray showed. I actually assumed this as I had experience before with getting x-rays while still being swollen. It appears from my experience that when the injured area is initially swollen, the bone appears via xray to be perfectly aligned/having only a hairline fracture/no problem at all. I asked the doctor to remove the full hard cast out of comfort and give me a half cast splint for the remaining three weeks (his initial diagnosis of 6 weeks to heal). He obliges. Out of pocket: $9.00 (xray/splint).

Monday October 26th: Return to original Dr. by myself excited to see my wrist, begin writing legibly, wearing shirts/sweaters with sleeves, etc. X-ray (again, no lead vest) shows no improvement from week 3 x-rays (and obviously still decline from original x-rays from 9/14). Dr. is pretty disappointed as am I. He recommends 4 more weeks of immobilization. Out of pocket: $4.00 (x-ray).

Monday November 23rd: Return to original Dr. by myself excited to AGAIN see my wrist, begin writing legibly, wear shirts/sweaters with sleeves, etc. Hooray! X-rays (sans lead apron of course) show improvement! Not enough. Dr. tells me he is encouraged but not convinced that it is time to remove the cast and begin rehabilitation. He offers me two options: 4 more weeks immobilization, or run down to the clinic down the street for a CT scan. Vexed, I opted for the CT scan as long as it was reasonable cost wise. He tells me $50 with insurance (me), $160 no insurance (...not me). Ok, 50 is reasonable. He writes up the recommendation letter and draws a modest map. Seems simple, walk 10 meters north, take a right, head 100 meters East. Well, 100 meters was a conservative number. 15 minutes and wild pointing/broken Konglish later I spot the sign (thankfully I've studied my 한글). I hand the "recommendation" (who knows what it says?) to the front desk and they point to a chair. A few minutes later I'm ushered into a room and asked a couple of broken English questions like "what hurts?" and "how?". Then escorted back to the waiting room. A few minutes later I'm shown into the CT scan room. This nurse/Dr. speaks zero English. This was probably a hilarious scene. Picture the patient trying to lay awkwardly on the table taking directions from the doctor in an unfamiliar language (with one or two English words thrown in such as "prone"...really prone?) to position themselves appropriately for the scan. CT scan complete, I'm escorted to the elevators and up to floor 5 to meet with a doctor. This Dr. knows a wee bit of English (less than my original Dr. but more than any other medical staff I've met). Through mostly pointing, nods, and a few English words I discover the news that the scaphoid hasn't healed (X-ray fail, don't tease me with your blurry pictures). This doctor says verbatim "Elevator down 1 give CT picture". Alright will do. Headed down 1 floor.
I probably should have read the signs to the entrance of the offices on this floor to see if they resembled anything medical. This created a fun situation of me saying "CT scan pictures" to the receptionist while handing her my recommendation paper from the Dr. Would have been great if she wasn't a receptionist for "Rabbit Advertising". Whoops, what that dr. had intended to say was go TO FLOOR ONE, not ELEVATOR DOWN 1.
Anyway, my red face arrives back at the front desk to retrieve my pictures/cd of pictures. They hand me the calculator with 165,000 typed out (calculators are incredibly handy tools for merchants who serve a community who doesn't speak the native tongue). I give them an awkward look, say "ah-nee-oh" (no). "ah-nee-oh, insurance" then I gave them the ol' X crossed forearms with fists in the air. The three people standing at the front look awkwardly at each other then back at me. I hand them my alien resident I.D. card and repeat insurance a few more times. I'm directed to a seat. 15 minutes later I'm summoned to the front. Summoned of course the Korean palm down way. This comes directly from the Official site of Korea tourism:

When you beckon to a person, do so with your palm down, and then flutter your hand up and down with your fingers touching together. It is not polite to beckon with your palm up ― especially using only one finger, because Koreans do that only to dogs.

The nice people at the front smile at me and show me a calculator now with 44,000. I smile, hand them my money and bow as low as I can to show them respect/thankfulness. I walk back to my original Dr. and give him the CD with the CT pictures. He views them and says "ah, you see CT scan is a good plan! X-ray was not a good picture and this is better to say your wrist is not healed". Bittersweet...very bitter. At this point the Dr. recommends I head to the big hospital to see a specialist regarding surgery. He writes me a recommendation letter that has to be used within one week if I want to see the Dr. at the hospital. I thank him and head back to school and ask my assistant principal to call and schedule me an appointment. He is great. Out of pocket: $45.00

Tuesday November 24th: The assistant principal (Mr. Kim btw) and I take at taxi ride to Gangnam Sebarentz<-- Korean pronunciation of severance. I thought hospitals were a tad confusing when you spoke the native language...oh my word I would have been here for 4 days without Mr. Kim's help. Shortened version: Find main front desk hospital, directed to the Orthopedic front desk, directed to the cashiers desk, back to the Orthopedic desk, directed to the area/desks that takes the CT scan images from the CD and loads them into the system, then back to the orthopedic desk where we wait to see the specialist. This is where the frustration begins. This specialist speaks no English. He looks at the CT scans, talks with Mr. Kim for about 6 minutes. Then we leave the office and Mr. Kim tells me that the Dr. says the bone is still broken but they need X-rays. I'm thinking why would they need an x-ray when you just looked at a CT scan from YESTERDAY. Ugh, I take the x-rays (oh a big hospital, definitely lead apron...nope) and schedule to meet the next "specialist" in two days. Out of pocket $19.00 (x-ray, initial visit)

Thursday November 26th: Arrive with Mr. Kim back at the hospital. See the next specialist. He speaks a bit of English...less than the original Dr. from the beginning, but more than all the other people so far. He looks at the X-rays and says (paraphrase): These appear inconclusive, I think we need a CT scan. I tell him, no, we have those in the computer. Then Mr. Kim (I'm assuming) explains in more detail. He pulls up the CT scan and then says "well, the bone is lined up, but hasn't healed, I'll be right back". He goes and speaks with what he calls "the head professor" and says "lets do 2 more weeks immobilization and then reevaluate. In two weeks you will meet with head of the orthopedic department". Really? 10 and 1/2 weeks have gone by and you want just 2 more weeks? I'm then walked into the room where a hard cast is applied. Out of pocket $40.00 (hard cast, etc).

Present.

I'm hoping the head orthopedic Dr. has got some great news/great ideas/speaks great English. I just hope he/she is great.

Couple of overall thoughts. I am pleased with the cost of healthcare and the care itself. I can't say I'm frustrated with the barriers because they are expected. I cannot presume that somebody in another country will speak the language I speak. I find that thought, to me, to be close-minded and naive. On the contrary, I'm extremely thankful for the Dr.'s who can use English (even if just a little), and abundantly thankful to Mr. Kim who may not speak perfect English but is doing all this work for me. I mean what does he have to gain by putting in all this time and effort? It is a blessing.


Thursday, November 26, 2009

Thankful Thursday

Well, THE Thankful Thursday is upon us and we find ourselves more thankful than ever. Although we are thousands of miles from family and friends from home for the holiday, we still experience the countless blessings and gifts on this special day. We have truly been blessed with an amazing support system found in our true and dear friendships, and our loving and devoted family.

Not only do we see Thanksgiving as a time to give thanks to God for what we have been given, but also a time to say thank you to those who have helped us along our journey. As a presence in our lives, we thank you.

We hope you enjoy the feasts and togetherness today brings. We pray that we all may keep the spirit of thanksgiving not just today, but throughout the year.

Psalm 30:12

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Thankful Thursday

We are thankful for...
  • instant hot water
  • heated floors
  • family gatherings
  • lots of laughs
  • gifts from our students

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Language Fail

Ugh, we all know that problems in the workplace are no fun. Well, add a language barrier to the mix and these problems can be a million times worse. BIS is an amazing school and we’ve been very fortunate to get the opportunity to work with some incredible people. There are, however, frustrations just like any other professional environment.

One of the more prominent frustrations is the communication problem. Christopher and I are often frustrated with the communication between the only English speaking staff, the English/Korean speaking staff, the semi-English/Korean speaking staff, and the only Korean speaking staff (does that make sense?). We have co-workers from every degree of the spectrum and it gets frustrating and exhausting communicating policy, ideas, and concerns in this manner. We feel that important words are often lost in translation, resulting in an entirely different scenario than we had anticipated. There have been times when a Korean staff member tells each of us foreign teachers something individually and then when we convene to discuss, we all have gotten something different from the conversation, leaving us very confused.

We wish there wasn't such a barrier between the foreign staff and the Korean staff. All of the staff here are so kind and gracious yet we don't really know them or their true personalities. We often hear them laughing and are disappointed because we want to be in on the joke; we want to know what funny thing happened on the way to work or what child they are making fun of. Unfortunately, our Korean skills are sub par and we probably won't be at the level to understand them more clearly any time soon. We don't even know their real Korean names - they only tell us their English names and all of the children use their English names. If you know me, you know that I like to talk and I hate that I can't always converse with the other staff members on a productive level. When riding in an elevator with them, I simply have no words and it's frustrating.

Chris and I have decided that we need to make more of a conscious effort to become better citizens of the Republic of Korea which includes learning more of the language. Reading Hangul is clearly not enough to effectively communicate with the many interesting people whom we encounter and wish to know. We are going to be having a very basic Korean class, facilitated by our Korean friends, in exchange for writing help and "accent improvement" (that's what they want). We will keep you posted on our progress, although it may be slow.

In the meantime, these daily Korean words and phrases on the Korea Times website have been helpful...


Friday, November 13, 2009

Friday Food

Tteokbokki tteok 볶이떡

Tteok is a common snack food here in Korea. Essentially, it is a steamed rice cake made with sticky rice flour. Most often it is served as street food in a spicy chili sauce. These plain tteokbokki are my new favorite snack. We purchase about twenty of these cylinder-shaped cakes for about $2 and then pop them in the trusty toaster oven to make a delicious treat. Well, I guess not so much delicious seeing as they don’t have much of a taste but they are very enjoyable to eat – they are warm with a slightly crunchy outside and a gooey inside. Mmm, I want some now :)

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Thankful Thursday

We are thankful for....
  • 빼빼로 (pepero) Day!
  • online banking
  • our digital cameras
  • back scratches
  • Mac OSX Snow Leopard

Monday, November 9, 2009

Fall, don't go...

Fall is by far my favorite season and I have always thought it to be too short. It seems as if the trees change colors right before our eyes and a switch is flipped that makes the air instantly crisper, and then, before you know it, the trees are barren and the air is biting. There are countless reasons I adore autumn, a few being the color orange, scarves, afternoon coffee runs, the sound of crunching leaves, boots, crisp morning walks, decievingly warm sun, the color red, cider, open windows, morning coffee with cinnamon, anything pumpkin, fresh air, light breezes, did I mention harvest blend?

Because we're from the wonderful state of Colorado, you think we'd be used to cold winters. Not the case at all, cold springs, yes, but not cold winters. We are not happily awaiting the winter solstice in Seoul, however we won't mind it as much seeing as we will not have to drive to and from work in snow traffic and the floors in our apartment are heated!

I know our fallish days are numbered so here are some autumn pictures that keep my spirits up...








Thursday, November 5, 2009

Adventuresome

From time to time we get comments regarding how adventuresome we both are. These are wonderful compliments but we don’t completely see ourselves as these wild adventure seekers. Yes we did move to a foreign environment and began working unfamiliar jobs, but it never could've happened without the fearless spirit of my wife.

From early childhood I never felt the desire to travel if the destination I was going to didn’t have familiar faces to see. Putting myself into a foreign place with unfamiliar sights and sounds seemed truly preposterous. Why leave the comforts I have come to know when all they do is keep me happy? Up through high school I strayed from undertaking new endeavors, traveling to new places, and trying things that would challenge me. Funny how one person can really flip your world around.

It was a step by step process Lauren took, easing me into the venturesome type. The first thing she did was convince me to apply to an out of state school. This was perfect, one small step to put me out of my comfort zone a bit by moving me away from all that I have known growing up. Thankfully, it was to a place I was quite familiar with, Arizona.

Secondly, it was time to get out of the comforts of a house and a city and into the wild of nature. Hard to believe now, but my first camping trip was with Lauren after high school was over. Once there it was clear this was going to be a wonderful habit to get into.

The next step was by far the most difficult. Take me out of the country.The desire to travel abroad for me was fairly non-existent to this point. I was offered a trip to Europe after high school by my generous grandparents, but a combination of mild interest and bad timing prevented it from happening (not all was lost, a glorious cruise took its place). Lauren, on the other hand, had the courage to move to Europe for an entire semester. Sophomore year of college Lauren set sail (figuratively) for Paris. Before she left she was pushing and pushing me to get a ticket to visit her. I kept telling her I would try, all the while trying to find excuses. It basically came down to a couple of things. I was pretty nervous about going to the other side of the world, and I couldn’t justify the cost of going. Every time Lauren and I would talk, she would push me about getting my passport. She would tell me “Well at least get your passport just in case you DO have the money to come, that way you can do it. If you get the money and don’t have your passport, then what are you going to do?” I understood her point, but continued to delay.

Finally came the middle of March and I gave in. Her point was too good to deny, and I also figured the passport wouldn't come in time, therefore I most likely wouldn’t have to face my fear. Photo taken and application submitted. I told Lauren that I had submitted the application and “we’ll see how long it will take”. She remained very hopeful, in turn making me a little nervous. Mind you, I did NOT choose the expedited process…Divine intervention? Perhaps. Less than 2 weeks later my passport arrived. I took it as a sign and booked by ticket to Paris. I would go in April in the middle of the semester. The layovers and long plane rides would be plenty of time to do any extra writing/reading for my classes I was missing. This experience continues to serve as the most eye opening experience of my life. The trip was inexplicably incredible. It widened my perspective and gave me so much to think about and consider. This is what officially whet my appetite for uncovering the unknown.

I owe it all to you my wife, just one of the many reasons I love you :)

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." -Mark Twain

Thankful Thursday

This week we are thankful for...

  • Guardian Angels
  • Unlimited coffee shops in Seoul
  • Days of rest
  • Afternoon off periods
  • Slippers

Friday, October 30, 2009

Friday Food

Samgyeopsal 삼겹살

This is a very popular Korean dish of unseasoned pork belly meat. The thick pieces of pork (basically fatty bacon) are cooked right at your table. You cut the slices with scissors (it's completely normal to cut all types of food with scissors here) and grill your meat to your preference. You are also given about 8-12 side dishes (banchan) to enjoy with your pork. We like to eat it fajita style in a piece of lettuce with grilled onions, garlic, chili paste, salt and pepper, and of course, kimchi! This is a very inexpensive, delicious meal. We'll try to get a better picture next time.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Thankful Thursday

This week we are thankful for...
  • Swine-flu days
  • Wireless internet
  • Seoul's recycling and waste management
  • Treadmills
  • Audio books

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

한복 (Hanbok)

Christopher and I got a chance to dress up in traditional Korean clothing (hanbok) this past weekend. We went to a soiree at a traditional Korean house (hanok) where they had dozens of different hanboks to choose from. The brightly colored hanboks are not as common as they once were but are still worn to traditional ceremonies or during special holidays. I opted for the bridal look - many Korean brides wear a jokduri (the little cap) during their traditional wedding ceremony. Chris is wearing a dopo (the bright blue overcoat) and a gat (the hat). It was fun to dress up for awhile, especially because we will not be dressing up for Halloween this year.


Here Christopher is wearing the king's everyday clothes. This hanbok is marked with a dragon on the chest. This pose is extremely common among Koreans; whenever you reach for or give something away you either use two hands or one hand supported by the other. We assumed that this was a sign of respect but have learned that it began when people had to hold back their oversized sleeves on their hanboks. These sleeves were used as a sort of pocket to hold scrolls and other items.


We are quite the colorful group!

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Thankful Thursday

This Thursday we are thankful for...

- frozen Reeses PB Cups
- Craigslist Seoul
- finding things that were once lost
- motivation
- our new jobs with Marie Story

Saturday, October 17, 2009

경주 (Gyeongju)

Last weekend we were able to get out of Seoul and head four hours southeast to Gyeongju.

We took a spacious bus and really enjoyed the ride - the scenery was amazing, the enormous reclining seats were unbelievably comfortable, there was a lack of other passengers (5 total including us), and we had two new books in hand.
We arrived at our hotel, The Daemyong Resort (Location:35°50'42.32"N 129°17'5.24"E) and were extremely pleased. The hotel was right on the water of the Bomun Lake. This view is from our hotel window (opposite the lake).
After doing a little touring of the Bomun Lake area we headed to the downtown area to see a few historical sites.
As we have done our entire time in Korea, we took the good old reliable public transportation. In trying to find 첨성대 (Cheomseongdae-more on that to come), we stumbled upon a nice parade certainly worthy of our humble attention.
After watching the parade, we picked up a Gyeongju treat - aptly named Gyeongju bread (or Hwangnam bread). It is basically a small round pastry filled with red bean paste. The ten we purchased were quickly consumed.
We followed the street signs to Cheomseongdae (The 31st National Treasure of Korea). Cheomseongdae is the oldest standing astronomical observatory in east Asia. Being the fans of Astronomy that we are, this was a must see (Loc: 35°50'4.53"N 129°13'8.73"E).

Near the observatory were some ancient tombs which were pretty incredible to see. You can actually see them on Google Earth if you look at the location of Cheomseongdae.
Another stop we made was to Anapji (언압지) Pond (Loc: 35°50'3.69"N 129°13'38.08"E).
This is an artificial pond that was ordered to be built in the 7th century by King Munmu. Interestingly, King Munmu's tomb is an underwater tomb. He asked to be buried underwater in order to become a Dragon and continue to protect his people.

Following some more walking and checking out different sites, we decided it was time to take the bus back to get ready for dinner. Thinking we were on the correct bus, heading the right direction, we sat down and began our longer than expected city tour. This was indeed one of the buses that could eventually take us back to our hotel. However, we basically had to travel the entire route, including the main station where we ended up locked on the bus for 15 minutes because of some awkward communication with the bus driver (He apparently said last stop, and then looked at us strangely through the mirror as he pulled into the main bus station. After showing him our map of where we want to go, he laughed, nodded, then locked the doors to the bus and went inside the main terminal for 15 minutes). As reliable as ever, the bus did get us back to our intended destination.

At the hotel we were able to enjoy a lovely dinner and watch our wedding DVD.
Our favorite place of the trip was the Bulguksa (불국사) Temple (Loc: 35°47'23.76"N 129°19'54.00"E). This is an old Buddhist temple and is home to seven of Korea's National Treasures. It was such a beautiful place especially with all of the fall colors.




This area of the temple we found very interesting. It had thousands and thousands of rocks stacked on top of each other. It is a tradition to make a stack of rocks, or stack on to someone else's pile. Every stack represents a wish or prayer.
Here is our prayer
If someone stacks on top of your stack, legend says it will have a higher probability of coming true (not sure what it means when you knock someone's stack over...yikes).

We then made our way to Baskin Robbins for a snack before our bus ride home.
This memorable trip was the perfect way to celebrate our First Anniversary.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Thankful Thursday

Wow, it's already Thursday again! This week we've been thankful for some special students...

  • Alex - This little guy has the sweetest personality, the best nervous laugh, and he is quite the cuddler. We've seen Alex about six times outside of school and everytime he gets so nervous and tries to hide behind his grandmother. We saw him once without her and he was so flustered that he fell, badly.
  • Barbie - This 1st grader is clearly one of the brightest at BIS. She always makes us laugh with her quick wit and humor. We often find ourselves seeking her out just to see what she has to say and teach us Taekwondo.
  • Kevin - Oh man, we spend hours talking about this 1st grader. He makes us laugh and laugh with his high voice and unique mannerisms. You can always tease/trick/scare Kevin and be sure you'll get a huge smile from him. He is a great sport.
  • Anna - This kindergartner is probably the most adorable girl you've ever seen. She has one deep little dimple on her right cheek. She has such a caring personality; she couldn't hurt a fly if her life depended on it. She is a wonderful helper and model student.
  • Kevin - This is the oldest student at BIS and one of our favs. He is obsessed with PC Bongs (Internet Cafes) and baseball. He always has a MP3 player in his ear and tries to hide it with his long hair; we often let him get away with it. We're going to miss him when he leaves for middle school.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Thankful Thursday

As we approach our First Anniversary, we are thankful for...
  • Holy Matrimony
  • Love and Commitment
  • Mutual Joy and Care
  • Honesty and Trust
  • Friendship and Companionship


Since God chose you to be the holy people whom he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. You must make allowance for each other’s faults and forgive the person who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. And the most important piece of clothing you must wear is love. Love is what binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are all called to live in peace. And always be thankful. Let the words of Christ, in all their richness, live in your hearts and make you wise. Use his words to teach and counsel each other. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. And whatever you do or say, let it be as a representative of the Lord Jesus, all the while giving thanks through him to God the Father.
– Colossians 3:12-17

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Early Expectations Encountered

When we first decided we were going to teach in South Korea in the future (about a year or so before we actually departed) I had loaded a picture of Seoul to my desktop just as a little reminder of something to look forward to. The picture is a cool long exposure night shot of an intersection somewhere (Who KNOWS where?!) in Seoul.

This is the photo:


I never expected to see this sight, or know where it was when I was here. Low and behold though, our home is only a short walk away from this spot. Walking through the city one day we glanced up at this skyscraper and saw "Glass Tower". It was so familiar to me but I had no idea why. We did not make the connection until days later when I happened to be looking at the picture in detail for the umpteenth time.

Here is a picture of the "Glass Tower" from our point of view.


Also interesting, this same intersection is the sight of another connection from home. Uncle Larry, you might recognize this...


To show you how close you can check out these coordinates:

Our home: 37°30'16.51"N, 127°03'05.36"E
Our school: 37°30'07.80"N, 127°03'18.75"E
The infamous intersection: 37°30'29.98"N, 127°03'49.08"E

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Thankful Thursday

Going along with the traditional themes of 추석 (Chuseok), we are thankful for...

  • Foods from the harvest
  • Our ancestors and their great sacrifices
  • Game nights
  • Time spent with family
  • The joy of seeing someone you love after a long absence

And of course the 4-day weekend this holiday brings :)

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Reflections of an ESL Teacher

I'm not sure how to share this without sounding completely ignorant so for those of you with education backgrounds, bear with me.

A good friend emailed me a few weeks ago asking about the "real" experiences Chris and I have had as elementary teachers so far. She also asked about how I have seen myself progress as a teacher over the months and how I feel about that process. This sparked a lot of much overdue and necessary reflection on my part.

As I thought about myself as a teacher I started to get frustrated with my proclivity to organization. Over the last few months I have really gotten into a groove of how I like my classes to "work" and I've become meticulous about the material covered. Although I don't always have tangible lesson plans, I do have a somewhat unpolished plan in my head and seem to always have time against me. It's hard because in some classes we've been given very strict guidelines and time restrictions, however in other classes everything is very relaxed and open-ended.

My reading classes are on a stringent schedule which, in my opinion, is too intense for the students but I will do as I'm told, even if the poor students have no idea what is going on. My language classes are completely unrestricted - as long as I complete the book by February 2010. It's been very hard for me to find a balance between these two standards and I've naturally leaned toward the more restrictive schedule. I have found myself being in constant battle with the clock which in turn, makes me feel like a horrible teacher who can't accomplish anything. Don't get me wrong, I know that some of my students are fine with the fast-pace style and are actually excelling, but some of them are left in the dust and will be behind their peers.

I've found it extremely difficult to reach all students with varying English abilities in one short class. Haha, welcome to teaching, huh? I just can't imagine having more than ten students at one time; the vast difference in ability would be too hard to handle. I've been trying to reorganize my classes to include more time to discuss/chat/ask questions without losing focus on the reason the kids are here. It has been made clear to us that BIS is not a conversational school; it's very academically structured. I attended academically focused schools and I constantly compare myself to teachers who at the time I didn't necessarily like, but now am thankful for. I think that is the kind of teacher I want to be (as long as the kindergartners like me), yet still I learn something new everyday and am in constant transformation as an educator.

Although many aspects of this job are out of my hands, I have wishes for myself and the students, some are within reason and some are distant dreams that are impractical.

- I wish the classes were longer.
- I wish all students learned English at the same time - giving them a more even ability.
- I wish I had more time to focus on vocabulary and accurate comprehension.
- I wish the students didn't pick up bad habits from other academies and adults.
- I wish I knew a successful way to break those habits.

Despite my negative feelings and frustrations, I love my job. Around our sixth month mark, I had a couple of rough weeks (i.e. I was a grumpy, probably very ineffective, teacher). But since then I've really started to feel the pure happiness/excitement of our first few weeks in Korea (more on that later). I feel incredibly blessed to have a job that makes me want to be better, that tests my strengths and weaknesses, that consistently teaches me about myself and the unique cognition of children.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Thankful Thursday

This week we have found ourselves being very thankful for...

cool evenings
a clean apartment
playing cards
new books
wrinkle free clothing

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Thankful Thursday

Today we are thankful for...

easily accessible and inexpensive health care
Korean lessons from taxi drivers
Costco goodies
rice juice
universal hand gestures/communication

Hand Fail


My very adorable and very clumsy husband (sorry babe) had a run in with the pavement this past weekend that cost him a right scaphoid fracture and six weeks in a cast. Christopher and I and two of our wonderful coworkers, Lourdes and Gina, went to a lovely wine cruise event on Saturday evening. After tasting, a little consumption, and giving himself a pseudonym, Chris attempted to show some skills and while losing his balance (the consumption may have had something to do with it) tried to break a fall and instead broke his hand. With help from Mr. Kim, Christopher was able to get all taken care of at a nearby clinic. Fortunately, the break is not as bad as it could have been. Some cases lead to surgery and much recovery but six weeks will fly by for us. Unfortunately, this comes at an inopportune time - we've started training for a marathon and Chris is not looking forward to running with a cast on, being a sweat master and all. Although this could be a very bad situation, we are looking at the positive side - we get some more up close and personal bonding ;)